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Mazie Cohen’s Son

July 16, 2020

By Kay Lorraine

I don’t know if this is true everywhere, but in the Jewish community in Columbus, Ohio, you are never really anybody on your own – you are just somebody’s kid. Even if you are 60 years old, you’re invariably introduced as Saul Irving’s son, David. Keeping this in mind, some of you know that I have been close friends with singer / pianist Michael Feinstein since he was in high school. I was the singer, he was my occasional accompanist. Between 1973 and 1975, we used to perform regularly at Heritage House (the Jewish old folks center in Columbus).

Now pay attention here or none of this will make any sense. At the time, my name was Kay Cohen because I was married to Bernie “the attorney” Cohen. (The less said about that, the better.) Michael Feinstein’s mother is the former Mazie Cohen, a shirttail relative of Bernie, whom she disliked intensely from childhood (showing excellent judgment on her part). Consequently, whenever we were introduced at Heritage House, they always introduced us as “Mazie Cohen’s son Michael and his lovely wife Kay.” No matter how many times we tried to correct them, we always got the same introduction. After a while, we just gave up and went with the flow.

Years later, I was divorced, living with Brad in Chicago, and I visited Michael, who was living in California, working for Ira Gershwin. One day Michael announced that he was headed to the Los Angeles Jewish Home, where he played piano at lunch maybe once a week. It would be just like Michael to continue that tradition – he has always been a generous giver. “Did I want to come along and do our old act?” Absolutely. We could trot out “Sunrise, Sunset,” and “Bei Mir Bist du Schoen,” at the drop of a hat.

We arrived and Michael took a minute to set up an extra mic (and obviously slip a note to someone). When it came time to go onstage, we were proudly introduced by the director of the home as, “Mazie Cohen’s son Michael and his lovely wife Kay.”

Nobody got the joke but me, but that is so typically Michael.


An Embarrassment to Jews the World Over

Apr 6, 2020

by Kay Lorraine

Image of a music sheet on piano keys

I am an embarrassment to Jews the world over. I know this to be true, because a cantor in Chicago made this statement in my presence, loudly, to a large group of Jewish women.

Let me explain:

It was Spring of 1978, and the sisterhood at my shul on the near north side of Chicago had an emergency meeting. Our joint Sisterhood/Hadassah Luncheon was the very next day and the entertainment that we had booked had been in an accident and was in the hospital. What were we going to do? It was Chicago, after all, so it wasn’t like there were no alternatives. The problem was money. We had booked a freebie and there wasn’t a line of professionals chomping at the bit to drop everything and entertain for free.

As it worked out, I had an old friend visiting me from California. He used to be my accompanist years ago and we were big favorites at the Heritage House Jewish old folks home back in Columbus, Ohio. With no effort, we could roll out our regular routine: “Sunrise, Sunset;” “Bei Mir Bist Du Schoen;” “Exodus;” and our finale “Yerushalayim Shel Zahav.” Depending on the time, my friend could also throw in a couple of rousing piano solos. Problem solved. The sisterhood breathed a huge sigh of relief. The next day the luncheon went fine. Afterward, the cantor of the shul was standing around talking to a large group of ladies. And he was talking about me! He criticized my Yiddish. He criticized my accompanist (“Some kid banging around on the piano.”) And he pronounced my Hebrew as “an embarrassment to Jews the world over.”  It hurt my feelings terribly and I immediately sought out the Sisterhood President to apologize.

She explained that the cantor had been the singer at several past luncheons, and when the entertainment was hospitalized, he just assumed that he would be asked to step in to save the day. When they went with me instead, he was furious. Who knew? She said the entertainment was fine and I should just forget about the cantor, but I was humiliated and eventually switched to a different shul.

My singing was good enough for Mel Tormé. And the “kid banging around on the piano” was my friend Michael Feinstein (before he was famous), who played “I Love a Piano” and “Alexander’s Ragtime Band,” two numbers for which he later became internationally known. Oy!


What Does It Mean to Be Jewish in Hawaiʻi?

Mar 27, 2020

BY MAT SGAN AND ALEX GOLUB


Published in Journeys, the Publication of United Synagogues of Conservative Judaism

Reprinted by Permission

When most of us imagine centers of American Jewish life, we are more likely to think of Manhattan or Los Angeles than the middle of the Pacific Ocean. So for us, and the other members of our Conservative shul in Oʻahu, Hawaiʻi, the question “What does it mean to be Jewish in Hawaiʻi?” is something we hear almost every Shabbat. Although many of our fellow Jews in Hawaiʻi have decided not to be involved in Judaism, we have made it our mission to emphasize the joys of Conservative Jewish observance and to continually invite others to join us to discover the answer to that very question.

Like many small Jewish communities, we work hard to maintain our culture and practice without the luxuries that come from living in places like Brooklyn or La Brea. Despite the challenges that presents, our small congregation of some 100 families has thrived for more than 40 years. How did this happen? When we set out as research partners to write a history of our congregation, we thought we would discover a story of resilience and community, which we did.

Yet, along the way, we also discovered something more surprising: that many of the things we considered our greatest weaknesses were, in fact, our greatest strengths.

Jews have been living in Hawaiʻi ever since the then-independent Kingdom of Hawaiʻi became a source of fresh food and supplies to the California gold fields and to ships that stopped in its ports in the 19th century. Jews trickled in and played various roles as merchants and even as advisors to monarchs. But they failed to form a sense of community.

With U.S. Annexation in 1898 and WWI came military activities and its attendant population multiplier. The center of Jewish religious activity shifted to the military and those associated with it. In 1959, when the territory of Hawaiʻi became an American state, a stronger Jewish community formed as Jews from the mainland moved to Honolulu, usually as part of their military service or to teach at the newly expanded University of Hawaiʻi. With the founding of Reform Temple Emanu-El in Honolulu in 1960, the civilian population began to develop a real sense of a Jewish presence in Hawaiʻi. In 1971, after feeling the need for more tradition-based Judaism than what was offered by the Reform temple, our Conservative congregation was established.

We originally decided to write a history of our congregation because we had noticed some of our founding members were getting a little grey in the temples and we wanted to make sure their stories would live on for future generations. As we interviewed members of our congregation, reviewed shul minutes and documents, and did library research, we learned stories that enabled us to construct a narrative highlighting the role our congregation played in so many Jewish lives in Hawaiʻi. This narrative is described in our book, Honey and Poi: The Origins and Development of Congregation Sof Ma’arav in Honolulu, Hawaiʻi.

Our name, “Sof Ma‘arav” or “furthest west,” is a reference to the medieval poet Yehuda Halevi’s poem lamenting that he was in Spain, while his heart lay in Jerusalem. We knew many of our members had moved to Hawaiʻi from the mainland. Therefore, we expected our story might be one of survival against the odds and nostalgia for the “old world” of the East Coast. But instead, we often found self-reliance was not a threat, but an opportunity that enriched us.

Sof Ma‘arav is a lay-led shul with no rabbi or cantor (although rabbis and cantors have at times been members of our congregation). Our members volunteer every week to leyn Torah, study Talmud and the parashah of the week, give a drash, lead services, educate adults and children and provide for the oneg.

A group can’t arrange something that demanding with just a few people; we’ve had to develop, to use a sports term, a “deep bench.”

We have found that when we are forced to rely on ourselves like this, people rise to the challenge and deepen their knowledge of liturgy, Jewish history, Israel, and what it means to be Jewish. The result has been a community where people have taken responsibility for their learning. We have a more educated, interactive, and capable congregation as a result. We like to think of ourselves as having the benefits of a larger synagogue and the warmth of a close family.

For years, Sof Ma‘arav has rented space from the Unitarian Church of Honolulu, which meets in a converted mansion in the valley of Nu‘uanu. This has given us a chance to form a strong interdenominational partnership with another faith-based community. Another not-to-be overlooked benefit of being in Hawaiʻi is that our sanctuary was originally designed to be a lānai (verandah). We can open and close the floor to ceiling sliding glass doors if the rain starts to come in or the rustling of the ferns and palm trees gets too loud on a lovely day in paradise.

In the course of our research, we also noticed some other, more subtle patterns in our history. One of the major concerns our history revealed was about replacement. Like many people in Hawaiʻi, we find that our children move away to the mainland for school and work and often don’t return. But, at the same time, whenever someone moves away, someone else moves in. We’ve been fortunate—or perhaps someone is looking out for us—to have new members move to Hawaiʻi and join our shul just when we seem to need new vitality the most.

Ultimately, researching and writing this book was a journey that really made us proud of our small community. We feel that Sof Ma‘arav has learned lessons that have not only helped us flourish but may be relevant for other congregations in other cities. In the long run, it may be that the best way to create an authentic and dynamic Judaism is not to bring Brooklyn to Honolulu, but Honolulu to Brooklyn!


My Conversion: My Birthday Present to Myself

Jan 16, 2020

Kay Lorraine

Image of a mikveNovember 24th was my birthday, but it was also the anniversary of my conversion to Judaism. Fifty-two years ago, on my 21st birthday, I went to the mikveh as my birthday present to myself. My conversion was an interesting journey that took two-and-a-half years to complete.

I was 18 years old and had a newborn child. My rabbi, Rabbi Baker took me in after refusing my application to convert three times. I learned that it is customary to turn down potential converts as many as three times. The most common explanation is that rabbis want to test the resolve and dedication of the potential convert. This Rabbi, however, described Judaism as a very difficult life, often filled with prejudice and discrimination. He said, “We set obstacles in your path so you can experience what it’s really like to be Jewish.” And just to prove it, he said “no” again. He turned me down three more times before finally relenting.

Converting Orthodox requires a course of both formal and informal Jewish education. The informal part happens through a network of congregants who taught me how to keep a kosher kitchen, how to prepare for Passover, and how to fit into Jewish society.  While the particulars of observance can be learned from books, the totality of Jewish life can only be experienced by living in a supportive, teaching community.  I became close with the rabbi’s wife.

I studied with the rabbi twice a week. I had to take a number of tests, both oral and written, on Jewish culture, customs, history and halakha. I was also required to show that I had performed enough mitzvahs to qualify as tikkun olam. In other words, I had to prove that I was good enough to be a Jew. I also took a year’s worth of night classes in Hebrew.  (Anyone who has ever sat in front of me in shul knows THAT didn’t take.)

My beth din consisted of three rabbis from our congregation. Because my shul was, at least at that time, borderline Hasidic, we had lots of rabbis to choose from. Once they had declared me ready, I had to wait for the rabbinical court to approve my conversion proceedings and set a mikveh date. I had specifically requested my 21st birthday.

On my birthday, I woke up with butterflies in my stomach. Just after noon, I entered the mikveh house (in Columbus, it really was an old house). The Rabbi’s wife was my escort. She examined me for any cuts or sores, which would prohibit my entering the mikveh bath. I had to remove any Band-Aids. My hair was thoroughly brushed. The Rebbetzin supervised as I closely clipped the nails on my hands and feet. There could also be no trace of cosmetics or nail polish. Because you are required to be thoroughly cleansed immediately before the immersion, I then took a long shower. Finally, I was ready for the mikveh.

My conversion had to be “witnessed” by my beth din. Since they were all men (remember, we’re ultra-Orthodox here) they were in the mikveh room but were behind a folding screen so they could hear but not see. For modesty purposes, I was instructed to wear a bathrobe to the mikveh water, just in case there might be one final, impromptu test by the beth din. Thankfully this did not happen. Once immersed, I removed the bathrobe and submerged my naked body totally. Not even a single hair can remain above the water.

Image of a mikvehWhen I came up for air, the Rebbetzin put a washcloth on my head before I said, “Barukh atah Adonai Elo-henu melekh ha’olam asher kideshanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al ha’tevillah.”  I said this blessing after the first immersion, but not before. The reason for this is that one cannot declare “G-d commanded us” if one is not commanded by G-d because he or she is not Jewish. The convert becomes a Jew only after the immersion is completed. I did this immersion and blessing twice more and finally, ta-da! I was a Jew.

Each conversion is unique.  I have heard of instances where the beth din requires you to vow to give up any former religions and take an oath to Judaism. I didn’t experience anything like that. I guess they thought that after 2½ years of non-stop learning, my dedication to Judaism was pretty much understood. I am also told that a big deal for most converts is the choosing of a Hebrew name.  A convert is as a newborn child, k’tinok she’nolad. A new person needs a new name. Once again, my conversion did not feature this, since my rabbi believed that all female converts automatically take the Hebrew name of Sara. Thus, I am Sara bat Abraham v`Sara or more formally, Sara bat Abraham Avinu v` Sara Imenu. 

When I removed the wet washrag from my head, I immediately put on my wig, my sheitel. My sheitel happened to be reddish with bangs. There are those in my old shul in Columbus who have never seen me without a sheitel and have no idea that I am blonde.

As soon as I left the mikveh house, I did what any right-minded Jew does: I headed over to Blocks Deli to celebrate. It was a good day.


Crosses and Kaddish: How a Jewish Convert Mourns a Catholic Grandmother

Jan 15, 2020

Athena DeRasmo

Kaddish  I was not baptized or raised Catholic; but my precious grandmother Marie surely was – old school Portuguese, Roman Catholic. However, when I was growing up, I did not see much evidence of her practicing her religion. It was the 60s & 70s. Time Magazine asked, “Is God Dead?” People were putting aside traditional religion and embracing other forms of spirituality. Grandma opted for a gentler observance – not orthodox, not born-again, nothing “exotic” — a kind of Christian light.

Fast forward to 2019, and my tiny grandmother voices a preference for a Catholic Mass funeral. Recently, we had been to the Catholic funeral for one of her sorority sisters, and it seemed that all the fondness for her closeted faith found its way back to her 95-year-old heart and mind. It wasn’t too many months later that her active dying began. In the end, she crossed herself a lot, and prayed to Jesus. A friend helped her to pray the rosary, and a priest was called for last rites. This was about her needs, her desires, her transition – and there was no place for any of my Jewish sensibilities or proclivities, not here, not now.

So now that she is gone, how do I, an observant Jew, mourn her and still minister to the plethora of particulars that comprise a goyish memorial service; a Catholic one no less! The Jewish traditions seem very focused on the needs of the living family, whereas the Catholic traditions are very focused on the needs of the deceased – and I am feeling the “pull.”

So, I will say Kaddish, and schedule the cremation, I will light the memorial candle, and book the church, I will wear a black tear ribbon, and hire caterers, I will suspend all plans for merry making for 30 days and formulate the memorial program and reception. I will light Hanukkah Candles, and write and run an obituary. There will be no sitting Shiva for me, but there will be flowers, many flowers for her.

Whatever the window-dressing of tradition, any tradition – in the end I will never speak to or see my grandmother again, and I will miss her for the rest of my days. My loss is neither Jewish nor Gentile – it is very human.

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Toledo: The Tale of Two Synagogues

Dec 10, 2019

By Kay Lorraine

After the expulsion of the Jews at the end of the 15th century, eight of Toledo’s ten synagogues and its five Talmudic schools were destroyed. The two remaining synagogues in Toledo are no longer used for religious purposes but are open for educational purposes. And the difference between the two is dramatic. The first synagogue you find inside the Jewish Quarter is owned by the Catholic Church. There is absolutely no mention of the original name (Ibn Shushan Synagogue) anywhere on the building. In 1550, about 150 years after the massacre in which virtually all the Jews of Toledo were slaughtered, an order of monks renamed the building Santa María La Blanca in an effort to drive out the perceived “darkness” of the building’s Jewish past. The Catholics charge a healthy admission fee to get into the synagogue and the adjoining “museum.” They tout the museum as a big attraction. What you get for your money is a totally empty building, except for a cross, and a Christian propaganda display.

I have no problem with Christian symbols. Good grief, I was raised Methodist. But I find it deeply offensive and inappropriate that the Catholic Church is charging money to tour a synagogue where they have prominently displayed their cross. The entry fee includes the “museum.” In reality, it is merely a room where a nun will sell you propaganda about the Fraternidad Maria Estrella de la Manana, canonically founded in 1999 by His Excellency Braulio Rodrigues Plaza. This foundation is “inspired by the Holy Spirit and nourished by the spiritual doctrine of St. John of the Cross… due to the rupture between Israel and the One True Church.” The nun will also accept additional donations. That’s their Jewish “museum.” Period.

There is a group of Spanish Jews out of Madrid who have petitioned the Archbishop of Toledo to transfer ownership and custodianship of the property to them. The Church does not even acknowledge their request. The building is being used for no religious purposes, but I suppose it does raise quite a bit of money for the Catholics from admission fees. By comparison, the other synagogue in Toledo is the Synagogue of El Tránsito. It is owned by the government of Spain, not the church. We paid nothing to get in. There is a sizeable Jewish museum attached to the synagogue.  They also have done extensive archeological excavations that are open to the public at no cost.  Among the things discovered in the excavations is an ancient mikvah.

The interior of this synagogue is beautiful. It is famous for its rich Nasrid-style polychrome stuccowork, which bears comparison with the Alcazar of Seville and the Alhambra palaces in Granada. The ceilings rival some of the great cathedrals, and women’s section in the balcony is decorated with intricate molding and Hebrew inscriptions that go all the way around the sanctuary. No part of the synagogue seems to be off-limits to tourists. The accompanying museum contains a wide assortment of Judaica, including ancient menorah, shofars, beautiful candlesticks, kippahs, tefillin, mezuzahs, kiddish cups, challah covers, etc. Each one has a detailed explanation so that non-Jews can understand the significance and appreciate the artistry. The government has also gathered abandoned Jewish tombstones from all over Spain and made a lovely garden of remembrance within the Synagogue grounds. There are no bodies there – just stones that they are preserving. There is absolutely no Christian propaganda being distributed in the Synagogue of El Tránsito.

Before leaving Toledo, I saw two other things that highlight the way the Spanish just don’t “get it” about what they did to the Jews. There are “Inquisition Exhibitions” in virtually all of the major cities, so that people can view the “ancient instruments of torture” for their amusement. One of them was right around the corner from our hotel and it had several examples of the torture-toys on display behind a window; people were constantly holding their children up to the window so that they could be entertained by them. Another was a detailed explanation in the town cathedral describing the way the Spanish consider the “conversions” of the Spanish Inquisition and the “decline of the Jews” to be just a part of the “Golden Age” of Spain. Gee. Just when you think it is safe to go back into the water…


The Last Jews in Grenada

Dec 9, 2019

by Kay Lorraine

In August and September of this year, my husband and I rented a car and traveled throughout Spain, soaking up the culture (and some fine food). I knew, of course, about the Spanish Inquisition but I was so naïve, I didn’t realize how widespread the consequences of it are still being felt today.

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Image 1: Gabriel and Beatriz Perez. The only two Jews in Granada.

The Last Jews. This is Gabriel Perez and Beatriz Cavalier Perez. They are the ONLY Jews in Granada (population 255,000). In 2013, they opened the Sephardic Museum of Granada to help shed light on an ancient community which flourished there until the expulsion of the Jews from Spain. Gabriel and Beatriz are unique because in most places in the Iberian Peninsula of Spain there are no Jews left at all. None. Zero. Nada. As Brad and I traveled around southern Spain, I became almost obsessed with finding an active shul. When I was unable to find any Jews at all, I started to do some research, and this is what I learned:

From the 6th through the mid-11th centuries the Jews of the Iberian Peninsula were generally accepted in society and Jewish religious, cultural, and economic life flourished.

A semi-open area with a menorah on a window ledge and plants.

Image 2: The museum created by Gabriel and Beatriz Perez.

Prior to 581, the Visigoths were mainly indifferent towards Jews and allowed them to grow and prosper. Once the Visigoths joined the Catholic Church, however, they began to persecute the Jews. No wonder the Jews welcomed the Muslim Arab conquerors in the 8th century.

Under Muslim rule, Jews prospered culturally and economically. They dominated the sciences (mathematics, astronomy, botany, and medicine) and arts (philosophy and poetry) and some notable figures held high posts in the Caliphate of Cordoba. Muslim Spain was probably the biggest center of contemporary Judaism in the entire world. There was still some persecution of the Jews, but it was nevertheless better than the rest of Europe.

 

 

A stone path with a Star of David design

Image 3: These Magen David symbols are in the walkways from the days when they showed the entrance to the Jewish Section of Granada.

With the death of Al-Hakam II in 976, the position of the Jews became more precarious. The first mass persecution of Jews on the Iberian Peninsula under Islamic rule was the 1066 Granada Massacre. A Muslim mob massacred many of the Jewish population of the city of Granada. More than 4,000 people from 1,500 Jewish families were slaughtered in one day.

Many Jewish scholars then fled the Muslim-controlled portion of Iberia for the city of Toledo, which had been re-conquered by Christian forces. For the next 350 years, Toledo was a thriving Jewish quarter of approximately 50,000 Jews. It became a great intellectual center, famous throughout Europe.

By the 14th century, however, the Catholics began a systematic “cleansing” of Spain. A full-scale pogrom broke out in Seville on June 6, 1391.  The infuriated populace attacked from all sides, plundering and burning the Jewish houses. Many fell victims to the mob’s fury, although some of the Jews accepted baptism to save their lives. At this point, the so-called “Jewish problem” became the “converso problem.” As a result, the once vibrant Jewish community never recovered and, along with the other Jews of Andalusia, they were exiled in 1483, 9 years before the final expulsion.

A stone staircase with Star of David patterns

Image 4: These Magen David symbols are in the walkways from the days when they showed the entrance to the Jewish Section of Granada.

In 1328, 5,000 Jews were killed in Navarre. In 1355, about 1,200 Jews were murdered in Toledo. The pogroms continued from 1360 to 1366.  Henry de Trastámara and his brother invaded Castile and murdered the entire Jewish population of Najera, Villadiego, Aguilar, Paredes, Palencia and many other towns. 300 Jewish families from Jaén were taken as prisoners to Granada.

The massacres of 1391 slaughtered 4,000 of Seville’s 7000 Jews. In Córdoba the entire Judería was burned down; factories and warehouses were destroyed by the flames and the corpses of 2,000 Jews lay in the streets. In the city of Toledo, Jews were burned at the stake, subjected to forced conversions and a blood bath of mass murder.

In 1481, thanks to Queen Isabella and King Ferdinand, the Spanish Inquisition started, with its headquarters at the Castillo San Jorge in Seville, targeting Jews among other groups; in 1483 all Jews were expelled from the city; and in 1492 the Alhambra Decree required all of Spain to be free of Jews and expelled all who would not convert to Christianity. Half of the country’s 300,000 Jews left, many for Portugal; the rest were forced to “convert” and a few stayed in hiding. Eventually, they traveled north to escape further persecution.

A series of rectangular monuments with inscriptions and images.

Image 5: Lucena’s Jewish cemetery. Unfortunately, it was locked up when I visited but I was able to take some pictures through the fence.

On our way to Cordoba, Brad and I took a side trip to go to Lucena where, during construction of Lucena’s southern ring road, in 2006, they accidentally discovered 346 tombs, dating from the 8th century to the first half of the 11th century, when Lucena was an important center of Andalusian Jewry. The Jewish Necropolis of Lucena is believed to be the oldest known Jewish cemetery in Spain. The local government has been working closely with UJCARE (Federación de Comunidades Judías de España) and the CPJCE (Committee for the Preservation of Jewish Cemeteries in Europe) to preserve the Necropolis and its cultural significance. In December 18 of 2011, 170 remains of Kedoshim that had been exhumed during the construction work were reburied in the cemetery. The reburial was carried out by members of the Chevra Kadisha of Madrid, under full Halachic guidance of the Rabbinical Board of the CPJCE.

A series of pits next to a monument

Image 6: Many of the tombs consist of a pit and side chamber.

I traveled to Seville, Jerez do la Frontera, Córdoba, Lucena, and Toledo, I asked repeatedly and could find no evidence of a single Jew left in any of these cities. Is there a “Jewish Section?” Sure, sometimes. Are there shops there selling Judaica? Yes, and they are universally manned by Spanish gentiles, more than happy to take your money.

Monuments

Image 7: Although I was not able to enter, I was pleased to see that at least one community cared about the history of the Jews in Spain.

The Jews of Spain (south of Madrid) simply ceased to exist.

I physically went to whatever is left of the Jewish Quarter of every city I visited in Spain on this trip. Mostly there is nothing to see except a brief plaque about what used to be there. It is very sad.

 

 

Two people in an alley way decorated with planters

Image 8: Here we are in the lovely flowered streets of the old Jewish district of Cordoba. That’s pretty much all that’s left of the Jews here. The Jewish district began with the construction of a wall during medieval times that separated Jews from the rest of the city.

 

 

 

 

 

 

An arch shaped entryway to a building.

The only synagogue in Cordoba.

A Hebrew plaque reading Shel toledo harova ha yehudi

This marks the beginning of the Jewish Section in Toledo.

 

 

 

Pictorial Log 

(goes with the pictures)

 

  1. Gabriel and Beatriz Perez. The only two Jews in Granada.
  2. In their little museum, they have created a sukkah to show Gentiles the Sukkot traditions.
  3. These Magen David symbols are in the walkways from the days when they showed the entrance to the Jewish Section of Granada.
  4. Once again, the entrance to the former Jewish Section of Granada.
  5. Lucena’s Jewish cemetery. Unfortunately, it was locked up when I visited but I was able to take some pictures through the fence.
  6. Many of the tombs consist of a pit and side chamber. 
  7. Although I was not able to enter, I was pleased to see that at least one community cared about the history of the Jews in Spain.
  8. Here we are in the lovely flowered streets of the old Jewish district of Cordoba. That’s pretty much all that’s left of the Jews here. The Jewish district began with the construction of a wall during medieval times that separated Jews from the rest of the city. Isn’t that lovely? (I’m being snide.)
  9. The only synagogue in Cordoba – but it’s empty and nonfunctional, so there’s nothing to see.
  10. This marks the beginning of the Jewish Section in Toledo.

Quotes from Sof

Oct 10, 2019

Sof Maʻarav evokes strong emotion from its membership. Here are some quotes that show how our members feel.

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Gayle Goodman

Sof Ma’arav is like being part of a dance where we all come together, like a beautiful symphony where the parts come together to make an inspiring and uplifting whole.

Celia Diamond

Wish I could be there! Greetings to all and L’Shanah Tovah to you and your family, and to everyone at Sof.  I think of you all the time and amuse the Havurah here by doing Gregg’s little dance when we sing “V’sham’ru.”  (I tell them it’s in honor of Gregg and Sof.)

 

Risa Dickson

While I was raised in a small Jewish community in the south, I have never felt such a strong sense of belonging and grounding as I do as a part of the Sof community. It’s a bit ironic that I was able to find and embrace my Jewish self in the most remote place on the planet.  Though I currently work in California, my heart is always with my Sof ʻohana and I cherish the trips home when I can be with my community.

Roz & Arnie Steinberg

We came to Hawaii to see your beautiful islands and celebrate our anniversary. It’s been a fabulous trip and being in your shul was the icing on the cake. We loved being part of your Minyan!! Shanah Tovah Umtookah to you and all the wonderful people we had the pleasure of meeting.

Jonathan Lewin

I found a wonderful family-like atmosphere at Sof Ma’arav that made me wish that I would pull up my roots and join you.  But, for the moment, that’s impossible.  Although I’m 77 years old, I’m still at my full-time job as a professor of mathematics at Kennesaw State University and, in fact, I’m more active in my work than ever before!

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The Meaning of Community

May 21, 2019

By Sid Goldstein

The dictionary defines community as “‘a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals.” I never understood how important that fellowship was until I got hurt. The unfortunate accident that I had visiting Las Vegas to see my family has made me understand what it truly means to be a part of a “community.”

Since Lorna and I returned home, not one day has gone by without someone from Sof reaching out to me. Whether it is a telephone call, an e-mail or a text, Sofers are checking up on me, wishing me well or just schmoozing. The number of prayers I’ve received is more than heartening. This cohesive community has surrounded me with care and concern in the face of tzuris. It is a very touching and very humbling experience. Sof Ma’arav far exceeds the textbook definition of a Community. I am honored to be a part of it, and will strive to do all that I can to support and promote our Congregation.

Mahalo to you all.

 

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  • The Royal Road to Relational Spirituality
    This is a 10 session course taught in 2019. Click here to purchase full course recordings. Click here for a free download of first session. Derekh HaMelekh— “The Royal Road”—is a collection of Shabbat and holiday teachings by Reb Kalanymous Kalman Shapira, who was the “Rebbe of the Warsaw Ghetto” as well as a major […]
  • Rising Above Isolation: The Piaseczner Rebbe’s Shavuot Torah of Connection
    Dates and Times: Tuesdays – May 12, May 19, May 267 – 8 pm EST Cost: Pay-what-you-can  Presenter: Rabbi Dr. Natan Margalit Description: We’ll learn together an amazing Shavuot Torah by Rabbi Kalonymous Kalman Shapiro, the Piaseczner Rebbe, also known for being the Hasidic Rebbe in the Warsaw Ghetto during the horrific years of the Holocaust. In this Torah he explores […]